The Great lesbian bonfire
9-12 November · Wales · 4 days | 3 nightsCrisp air. Cosy fires. Lesbians.
You know that autumn feeling. The air gets crisp, everything goes golden, and suddenly all you want is a fire, good food, and snuggle up on the sofa with lovely people around you.
That's this.
Three nights in the Welsh countryside. Long walks through the hills. Cosy fires. Food that warms you up. And one very therapeutic bonfire where we burn the bits of this year we're don’t need anymore.
Hot potatoes. Marshmallows. Bobbing apples. New friends that feel like old ones. The kind of tired you get from too much laughing and good sleep.
Just pack warm. We'll take care of the rest.
What your days will look like
Feeling nervous about booking? Here's what previous BFF retreat guests would say to someone considering coming along.
"It’s a safe and incredible environment. "
“The activities are incredible, but it’s the conversations, vulnerability, ridiculous moments and connections with the other women that you’ll remember.”
"Just do it! It’ll only ever be worth it "
“You arrive not knowing what to expect and somehow end up singing, dancing, laughing, crying and sharing things with women you only met a few days ago.”
“We came from different backgrounds, cultures and walks of life, but everyone arrived with the same openness and willingness to connect.”
“Some of the best experiences happen when you push yourself slightly outside your comfort zone. You may end up wondering why you ever hesitated.”
Your home for the weekend
A large, restored, luxury farmhouse near the Brecon Beacons
Room options
Three nights in a beautiful farmhouse surrounded by the Welsh countryside.
Meals taken care of, breakfasts, dinners, and a packed lunch for the hike.
Guided hikes through the Brecon Beacons and the surrounding countryside.
A yoga session on Tuesday.
A breath work session on Wednesday.
Plenty of activities around the house to enjoy together.
A like-minded group of women who are ready to connect and have fun together.
What’s Included
Pub lunch on Wednesday
Travel to and from the retreat location.
Travel insurance.
All activities are taken part in at your own risk. If you have any concerns about your ability to join (especially the hike), it’s your responsibility to check in with a medical professional beforehand.
What’s Not Included
Sign UP Process
Your Questions, Answered
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All ages. So far, our retreat guests have ranged from 23 to 62. What matters much more than age is coming with an open mind and wanting to connect, have fun and meet new people. You’ll be surprised how much you’ll have in common.
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Absolutely, most people do. BFF Retreats are friendship-first, so everyone is coming to connect and make new friends. You don't need to know anyone before you arrive, that's kind of the point.
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To help us protect the space and everyone in it, we don't publicly share the exact retreat address. Once you've paid your deposit and we've had a quick face-to-face call as part of our vetting process, you'll receive the full location details and everything you need for your stay.

